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28 jul 2025
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Request for Support – Legal, Financial, and Emotional Guidance Needed
I’m writing as a father and recent immigrant to Sweden who is in urgent need of support. After relocating from abroad with my spouse and children, a series of personal and financial events have left me isolated, heavily in debt, and without meaningful legal help. For many years, I was the sole financial provider in my family. After moving, I continued working remotely and paid for all expenses, including setting aside tax funds in good faith. Over time, control over shared finances shifted, and significant funds were used without my consent leaving me fully liable for debts I didn’t create. Following job loss and the breakdown of the relationship, I was forced to take out loans to cover tax obligations. The home we bought was later sold through mediation, but the financial and emotional damage was already done. Despite reaching out to law firms, I’ve struggled to find support or advocacy possibly due to being a father and foreigner in a complex family dispute. I’m asking for your help with: Finding a legal advocate or advisor who understands financial abuse. Support navigating debt restructuring (skuldsanering). Emotional or peer support as a father under stress. Guidance on protecting my parental rights.
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31 jul 2025
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Thank you for sharing your situation – it sounds incredibly difficult. While this forum focuses on peer support between fathers, I’d recommend turning to the following neutral and professional services in Sweden for legal and financial guidance: Municipal Budget and Debt Counseling – free support available in every municipality. Hallå Konsument – a national consumer service offering guidance on rights and financial matters. The Swedish Bar Association – for finding legal professionals, some of whom may offer initial consultations or legal aid. I hope these resources can be a helpful starting point. For emotional support as a father, I’d be glad to continue the conversation here. Your focus on your text is mainly on the financial part, but I can assume that there are a number of areas you'd like to cover in regard to your role as a father. My best suggestion would be to visit the page below to get a personal contact for 3-4 individual talks with a father from our organisation. We call it "Pappasnack". https://pappor.se/for-pappor/att-vara-pappa/pappasnack-samtal-som-gor-skillnad All the best to you and I wish you find a way forward based on my suggestions.
30 jul 2025
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Your situation seems horrible. I searched for free consultation on internet. You can contact these organisations for further help: https://www.google.com/search?q=gratis+juridisk+hj%C3%A4lp&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=sv-se&client=safari&safe=active